Recently, I performed a series of recitals, two of which were open to the public. I had posted the dates and times of these recitals on my blog as well as sending a flyer and invitation to all of my students for one of the recitals. Of my 29 students, only 4 attended one of the recitals.
This was disappointing to me. I worked very hard to prepare this program in order that my students and others might enjoy it. I also scheduled the Wilmington Music School performance at a more child-friendly time to make it easier on families. I believe that the students who attended enjoyed the recital. I know that some families were out of town for spring break, but many were not. The lack of support from my non-attending students was surprising and hurtful.
My personal disappointment aside, I am concerned that we are taking a lopsided approach to our children’s musical education. We encourage them to practice and attend lessons and group classes. We prepare them to perform in public. However, I am not hearing from many students that they attend performances by professional level musicians. I believe that we are doing our children a disservice in not nurturing a respect for and love of live music performance.
I am very aware that it is extremely difficult to make time in your already busy schedules to attend concerts. I think that the inspiration that students – and parents! – can receive from these performances will easily dwarf the effort and expense of attending. Students need to know where they are going in their own playing, and need to appreciate the expertise of those who have made music a major focus of their lives. We all need to be exposed to great music, because it makes us better people.
I would like to ask that all my students make a renewed effort to listen to classical music. There are many wonderful recordings at the library. If you need ideas, I will be happy to make personal suggestions for you. Also, beginning in the fall, I am going to require that every student attend at least two live classical music performances per year. There are many free events throughout the year that I will post on the blog, along with links to arts organizations. You may check their calendars to determine what performances work best for you to attend.
Please consider this an important part of your child’s musical education. I think you will find that it is an important part of yours, as well.